​WEDDINGS

Who can be married at Ss Peter and John’s?

• We try to follow the example Jesus set, by not turning people away. Any couple that seeks to follow the ideals set forth in the marriage services of the Episcopal Church can be married at Ss Peter and John’s. At least one of the individuals must be a baptized Christian. Questions concerning this can be addressed by Fr. John Rohde.
• We understand marriage to be a sacrament, and because of that it requires preparation. In order to give it the attention it demands, we ask that the couples meet with Fr. John Rohde prior to the wedding date at least 4-6 hours (on multiple occasions if needed) to set intentions and walk with clarity into matrimony.
• We understand that the road is winding, and that some have experienced divorced. We welcome the opportunity to support you in taking the next steps in your journey. Please contact Fr. John Rohde to discuss what those steps will be.   

When and who to contact?

• While we are open to discussing your wedding at anytime, we encourage you to contact us at least 3 months prior to your desired wedding date.  You can contact us through your general email or by phone to confirm your date at [email protected] or 315.252.5721.

Marriage License

• Please make sure that you obtain a Marriage License at least 48 hours before the ceremony. It must be brought with you at the time of your rehearsal. Traditionally, the Best Man and Maid of Honor sign the license, but it is up to the couple to choose their witnesses.
• Photographer/s and Wedding Planners contact our priest for instructions and  responsibilities.  

Aisle Runners, Bird Seed, Petals, etc.

• Due to liability concerns and safety of our guests, the use of aisle runners, petals,  and rice, are not permitted on the church property. Bird seed may be used with prior approval of clergy.  We recommend blowing bubbles, waving ribbons, and hugs and kisses are great alternative options. If you have another idea, please feel free to pass it by our Priest or Sexton.
• No nails or tacks on walls or furniture. Any decorations may be done the day of the wedding and it is your responsibility to remove them after that ceremony.  If the use of candles is desired, please consult with the Priest or Sexton ahead of time to insure they are within code. 

Music

• We have a list of organists who are available to play for weddings.  If any particular or unusual pieces are requested, you must discuss this with the organist in advance.                         .  

Photography

• The taking of photos and videos is encouraged! We would suggest that photographers check with Fr. John Rohde before the service begins regarding which areas to avoid and expectations.  during the service.

 
Rehearsal

• You will plan the date and time with Fr. John Rohde and the Wedding Planner (if applicable). You will be responsible for notifying everyone in the wedding party. 

 
Decorations

• You may decorate the church, and we encourage it, but please do not use nails or tacks on walls or furniture. Any decorations may be done the day of the wedding and it is your responsibility to remove them after that ceremony.  If the use of candles is desired, please consult with the Priest or Sexton ahead of time to insure they are within code. 

 
Maximum occupancy ratings
Sanctuary:  450
Dining hall:  170
Community room:  40
 
Wedding Fees For All Weddings
Clergy with Pre-Martial Counseling: $400
Service Leaflet: $100 (you may supply your own with prior approval of the Priest)
Building Manager: $100
 
Some Of the Following Fees May Apply
Sanctuary:  $400 for non-members 
Clergy:  $200 preparation for non-members; $200 rehearsal and wedding 
Community Room  (for small groups only):  $200
Parish Hall and Kitchen:  $500 for non-members; $200 for members 
Music Director and Organist:   starts at $200
 
All fees may be combined into one check.  Ss Peter and John Church encourage a free will offering to the charitable mission work of the church. Tithe (10%) of the cost of the wedding is customary, but ultimately up to the family